A Step by step Example.
The example I'm going to show you comes using a Father in North Idaho. I use it with all our members for one or more reasons. For one, if you had an arena full of Fathers they will probably all swear it won't work, especially in their case since the "X" is uncooperative Fathers mostly won't try something and include any emotional risks. And so they do anything at everything, they keep up a workout protective shield.
So in any initial settlement offer, you must have the following key properties and assets. This settlement letter number one is to get the "primer" so to communicate. Do not expect a favorable response on this first letter. Instead, send it knowing that you will be following with more ship.
The letter is dated and addressed in a formal manner; however, a particular salutation says, "Dear Ginny".
- The letter goes on to present specific solutions to each problem, which includes; parenting issues, custody, property town, child and more.
- But, most importantly, at the end that's not states in no uncertain terms that he won't give up and won't roll over for unfairness. Meet ½ way, yes, but not be steam-rolled.
My point is what follows to every "X" which gets this letter and does not respond? 15 days at a later time, they get a classmates and friends one. This letter goes on to restate the problem, restate the solution, remake the offer. And it works and most often gets response. That's not what's crucial to our conversation.
What's important is exactly what happens to everybody that gets letter number one and letter number two and still does not respond? A couple weeks later, they get mail number three. I'm ensure the picture. Where most fathers make their mistake is in stopping after the authentic letter.
The secret to Father's rights is if you want impact, if you want a positive response from the opposite side, you must have distributor. The two are inextricably credited. One does not happen without worrying about the other. But you can't be unreasonable in your stress either. You can't afford and causes more problems for you personally by making unreasonable and so emotional demands.
You need a guerrilla warfare kind a part of repetition. Your "X" may not be willing on the first letter or even the fifth letter, but it's worth every penny of a stamp when it could save you thousands in court fees and months in the courtroom. And if it never works, you have documented exempt for the court that you're trying repeatedly to settle and get started with your "X" while she will be refused and been reasonless. Either way, it's a win-win situation for everyone!
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